It's not your fault!
The topic of this blog is challenging for me to write about due to the nature of the subject matter. I suspect that your initial reaction to the heading was one of curiosity. "What" is it that is 'not your fault', or mine. Let me start by asking you a question. Do you believe that you are responsible for the choices your children and their children make? Well, this is a subject matter that I have struggled with for many years. I will start by briefly discussing my own parents. I do not blame my mother for choices she made that may have negatively affected my life. Nor do I blame my father for not being present at all in my life until I was six years old, and then, only with a limited and unsustainable scope. And without any notable positive influence. I think that both my parents did the best they could with what they had in terms of their mental health, emotional maturity, etc. I am grateful for the other positive adult role models in my life including teachers, coa...